Making Thyme for…Baby!!
I’m so excited to announce that this December we’re expecting some pretty big fireworks! We couldn’t be happier to kiss our freedom goodbye, lol!
It feels surreal to finally be sharing the news considering this is something we have dreamt about for a while. We always knew we wanted to have kids but decided it would be best to wait until Brandon finished graduate school and settled into his career. I was aware that it was risky to wait until my mid 30s but I’ve always had regular cycles so I figured that meant everything was normal.
We started trying a few months before we bought our first house which, looking back, was probably the worst time to start trying for a baby. Between financing the renovation, having to pay rent plus a mortgage, and planning the entire thing without a designer, we were stressed to the max.
Fast forward, almost a year later, we moved in and I started to become anxious that it still hadn’t happened yet. I turn 35 this year and as anyone who works in the reproductive field will tell you, fertility begins to steeply decline at my age. Considering time wasn’t on our side, we decided we should both go ahead and get tested to see what the issue could be.
Lo and behold, every single test we had came back normal. We were diagnosed with unexplained infertility and both of our doctors suggested that we take Clomid to increase our chances of conceiving. However, I didn’t feel comfortable doing that without there being an identifiable problem. My body was giving me every sign that I was ovulating regularly and I was worried if I took drugs we would end up with twins. Not that there’s anything wrong with twins, I just personally prefer to have one baby at a time and not to take pharmaceuticals unless I absolutely need them.
As luck would have it, the cycle after we had fertility testing we finally saw a positive pregnancy test! It was first thing in the morning on March 25th and as soon as I saw that faint second line I brought the test to Brandon (who was in the kitchen eating breakfast) and asked him if I was imagining things.
I realize that’s the least creative way I could have shared the news but I just couldn’t believe my eyes! I needed instant confirmation. After that I went straight to the store to buy more tests to make sure it wasn’t a fluke.
Even though we didn’t take any fertility drugs, I did try everything under the sun to help us conceive naturally. I put both of us on a variety of supplements, made some diet changes, starting meditating and I did acupuncture once per week. We had been doing that for 3 months so there’s no telling whether that’s what worked or if it was just a matter of time but I do believe focusing on slowing down and reducing stress was crucial for my mind and body to realize it was safe to have a baby.
Of course I am beyond grateful to be pregnant but I have to admit the first trimester was a little different than I was expecting. I couldn’t get excited because I was so nervous something would go wrong. Between that, the nausea, the bloating, and the sheer exhaustion, I felt immobilized. Those three months were probably the least productive I’ve ever been in my life but I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
About 8 weeks into the pregnancy I started having a strong feeling about the gender. I don’t know why but whenever I thought about it I just kept imagining a little boy. I even had a dream that Brandon told me it was a boy. Knowing that we would find out the sex around 14 weeks (thanks to a DNA test), I started forcing myself to picture what life would be like with a girl so that I would be equally as excited when the time came. But as it turns out my intuition was right. Although we would have been thrilled either way, we’re overjoyed to know there’s a little man growing in there.
I’m currently 16 weeks + 5 days and am finally starting to feel comfortable with allowing myself to enjoy being pregnant. I even bought a few outfits already because how can you not? Baby clothes are so stinking cute.
As far as the blog goes, everything will stay the same minus a few pregnancy updates/favorites as things progress. I’m hoping that I’ll eventually be able incorporate more baby and kid-friendly recipes once I have that experience under my belt as well.
Lastly, if any of you are struggling with infertility please know that you are not alone. I’m happy to chat if you have any questions so feel free to reach out to me. Talking with others who went through the same thing helped me immensely during our journey.
If you made it this far, thank you so much! I’m incredibly grateful for this community and I can’t wait to share this next chapter of our lives as a family of 5. (Including Lucy and Charlie, of course!)
What a beautiful and happy post! I’m so happy for you! I truly believed ‘something’ was going on when you were posting many less NEW recipes. For me I couldn’t tolerate any smells the first 3 months & the thought of trying out a new recipe, forget it! Anyway, I’m so delighted for you as you move into this new stage of your lives! Baby makes 5! ;)
Haha you were right! I wasn’t sure if anyone even noticed that I was just updating old recipes because I couldn’t stand to think about food. All I wanted was bagels which isn’t very interesting for a food blog. It was so bad I was thinking about going to back to working at the hospital, although I’m not sure the smells there would have been pleasing either.
Thank you again for the congratulations! It means so much! :)
Look at that baby bump! So adorable. Love these photos, Sarah. I’m also so happy that you’ve made it through the hard first trimester. Time to enjoy the 2nd! I can’t wait for this sweet boy to be here in December. I’m also so happy to hear you’re going to do some more posts on pregnancy. :) Again, I’m SO happy for you! Yay for 2019 being your year!
I’m trying my best to enjoy the second trimester and not worry! I think I will feel better when I start to feel him move. Unless it’s keeping me up all night, lol. Thank you again for being my support system! xo
What a great news congratulations to you both !!!
Thanks Laura! :)
Congratulations!! So happy for you guys!
Thanks so much, Kelly! Hope you are doing well!
I am SO EXCITED for you and your family!!! That first trimester can be such a rollercoaster – I’m so glad to hear you’re feeling better now! Can’t wait to follow along on your pregnancy journey
Aw thanks, Liz! Watching you being a mama to Oliver has given me major baby fever, lol! He is seriously the cutest. It’s been fun to follow your journey too!
What happy news! Wishing Sarah, Brandon, Lucy, Charlie and Baby Boy many joys!!
Thank you so much, Janice! :)
How fabulously joyous! Congratulations!!!
Thank you for sharing! Katie
Thanks Katie!! :)
Congratulations to you both!! It’s a wild ride for sure, but so totally worth it!
So honored to see you’re still following along, Melissa! Thank you so much for the congrats! :)
CONGRATULATIONS! So happy for you!
Congrats to you both!! So happy for you!!
Timing has a way. So happy for you two! And you are beaming, Sarah! xo
YAYY!!! SO excited for you lady! I have so many comments… What I’ve learned in 2019 is that pregnancy is quite a journey, and one that I certainly did not fully grasp until I started experiencing it myself. There are just so many changes happening and isn’t it wild and amazing and weird all at once?!
I totally know what you mean about just intuitively knowing the gender of your little one. I felt the exact same way, only mine is a girl. I also tried to prep my brain for the possibility of the opposite gender, but once I found out it was a girl, I felt relieved because I just knew it in my heart. Knowing the gender totally made it feel more real to me!
Stress takes a huge toll on our bodies in so many ways, so why wouldn’t it affect if you were successful in getting pregnant, ya know? Implementing some techniques to lower your stress levels was for sure a smart move. I hope that you continue those practices throughout pregnancy, because I think it can only help you! Staying calm has been super important to me throughout my pregnancy. I’m starting to do more research on hypnobirthing to help me stay calm in labor as well. If you’re ever getting antsy about anything to do with baby, just remind yourself that you were built for this, you’re doing amazing, and all will be well with both you and your little one :) I will of course be following along in your journey to motherhood!!
Aw thank you for the encouraging words, Nicole! Acupuncture was huge in helping me relieve stress. If it wasn’t so expensive I would definitely continue it during my pregnancy. But I have been meditating (although not as regularly as I would like) and want to start prenatal yoga soon which I think will help. I agree that staying calm will be super helpful for labor and delivery. I’ll be thinking of you as you get closer to your due date and hoping all goes well!
Congratulations!
Thank you!!
I’m SO excited for you!! I’m sorry it took so long and I know how that can make you feel month after month of seeing negatives but so happy you got your positive!! And, I think I told Eric the exact same way as you told Brandon and then also ran out and got one of those digital tests lol! I’m glad you’re starting to feel better and get back to things but also don’t feel bad about taking time off during your pregnancy, it’s so important to take care of yourself and rest when you need to! So so so happy for you guys!! xoxoxoxo
I’m so happy that you were able to conceive on your terms (albeit a bit later than you would have liked). :) I had my own problems conceiving as I told you, and took (3) pregnancy tests and still didn’t believe it! I’m just so happy for both of you and can’t wait to see your baby!
It’s hard to believe it’s real when you’ve been trying for so long! Had it not happened for us when it did, I probably would have ended up trying Clomid. I was just really paranoid about having twins, lol. Thank you for the kind words, Marcie. :)